How to tell you're enabling your child instead of helping

link:
http://blogs.trb.com/features/family/parenting/blog/2009/09/how_to_tell_youre_enabling_you.html

It's a good article, but if you don't read it... here is the highlight:
Helping is doing something for someone that he is not capable of doing himself.
Enabling is doing for someone what he could and should be doing for himself.